Based on what we have discuss , cyber love known as online relationship and also online digital dating relationship. because it happened in cyber world. Cyber love includes relationship build up through online, it can be msn , facebook , friendster and any website online dating.
"Cyber dating,cyber love...most people may feel so fresh with these terms.A guy "meets" a girl in a chatting room;they find out that they have so much in common. And from all the chatting and meeting online, all of a sudden they discover that they cannot sleep tight anymore without saying good night to their cyber lovers. " This is one of the definition from my friends.
As we all know,the feeling of love always comes out when you attract to someone and maybe you found someone who having same interest,hobbies with you. So, it can happened thru online, then come out with cyber love. It always comes out after couples month online chatting. Actually,cyber love is another kind of relationship. But yet, there are still many people do not agree with cyber love which they give the reasons that cyber love is unreal. Especially parents , they are scared their children can be cheated, which always come out in the headline of newspaper. For example, "My girl naked photos been posted youtube by her online boyfriend", " My cyber partner cheat thousands of my money" .....
But, if we changed our point of views, is that reality love happened the same things ? Perhaps the answer is yes. But why, there are still so many people misunderstood about cyber love ? Can't cyber love is also a romantic relationship ?
I guess through this passage and discussion below, you all able to understand what is the meaning of cyber love. And , another discussions topics about cyber love will be continue by the next post.
Here are some comments about cyber love from others website.
"cyber love is a good thing. now a days we talk and listen a lot about globalization, global village, etc etc. but cyber space is the only place where real globalization really exists. and cyber love is the best outcome of it, i guess. and what is love? love is an interaction of attraction, faith and dependence. then if it comes through fiber optics or radio links, i see nothing wrong, naturaly."
"Cyber love is the road less taken, what comes after is never clear, but through the internet, people are shielded from the face-to-face interactions, body language, etc. People may feel a lot more comfortable chatting through words and protected by the computer screen, thus be able to express their truest side. I cannot say I believe or not on online relationships, but I have a friend who is currently doing so."
P/s here are the true stories of cyber love. click the link if you interested to read it. =)
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ReplyDeleteFrom my point of view, i think that maybe cyber love sounds romantic for those youngster. but cyber love is kind such a waste of time relationship, because they need to spend a lot of time to online so that contact theirs' lover. some more, this kind of relationship usually will not last longer because nowadays people are cheating everywhere. so it's hard to say that your lover are not cheating on you. so .. guys, just think carefully before you start a cyber love.
What is cyber love?Cyber love,in my opinion is love that doesn't exist in the real world.Why do i said that this love is doesn't exist?It is because cyber love is happen only in cyber,for example in myspace,facebook,and many more.We only know the person in cyber as we do spend lots of time chatting with him/her and do not know the person,face to face.Imagine if we meet the person,it is same like in cyberI don't think the question would be yes..Written by,SaripAh.
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ReplyDeletei think our teenager's must be know about it
for my opinion,it's about the way that someone get a love,either easy or not?.The cyber love is something that not so real unless you are very sure that is your choice and it need both choice is come from heart and believe it.when you want to find the love from cyber,you have many choice way,either you join yahoo Messenger,frendster,facebook,Myspace or any way to find out your feeling about love.Someone feel lonely and the sign in cyber chatting to view new friends or someone special in their life.For me,when somebody join in to the chatting room,they will enjoy and feel happy because they will share about anything what happen to them on that day.When they have a problem,sometime the chatting friends will give them a way how to overcome the problem.But,the cyber love also will give you a trouble thing.The friends from chatting room can lie you about profile them.They can tell you a wrong story about them and you can believe it.and i think it not good and will hurt the other else.
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cyber love is a love made in cyber world. cyber love?? as a teenagers i know that. it's a easy way to get a couple in cyber but not in reality. in cyber, we can pretend to be another person without tell the true. usually, we can join a cyber love through facebook, yahoo massengers and friendster. i think, cyber love is not really good for teenagers rather than reality love.
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I think cyber love does exist. It's only different by the degree of seriousness of the couples.
Cyberspace is a great medium to know many people from many places.
I feel that if a person have the faith enough (after great considerations) that the person who you feel like you have a great chemistry with is the one for you,
then afterwards you can take a further move to actually be in a real relationship. What was a 'cyber love' would now be a long-distance relationship (unless he turned out to be the man who lived across the street LOL).
But most of all, be careful and be prepared for the worst-case scenario, alright.
oops. and what I meant by 'real relationship' is the the ones for the marriage purpose.
ReplyDeleteuna relación real es el amor que seas capas de ofrecer a tu pareja y esta a ti, es pensar , dormir, bañarte, con el en la cabeza, es sentir necesidad de que este a tu lado, y lo más importante mantener una comunicación variable para evitar la monotonía que te destruye tan rápido; es sinceridad y confianza eso es una relación real, lo demás es bobería. Saludos
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DeleteUna relación real debe ser basada en la confianza, el amor, la sinceridad, que la pareja sea capas de llegar. Hora estoy soltero por esa razón, porque busco alguien que me quiera y que le guste la sinceridad y el cariño. Saludo a todos los que lean esto , si me quieren escribir mi correo es fulloap@yahoo.com. Espero les guste como pienso.
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ReplyDeletehey guys. actually I don't agree with all you said. obviously we are living in a modern world and everything is going to be up to date. so meeting someone on the internet also can be a new and interesting way and we should be thankful from internet which gave us this opportunity to know and find our soulmate from another country. but the thing that matters here is not to stay all the time in that unreal world and bring your relationship to the real world and meet each other as soon as possible
ReplyDeleteExactly for what u have said
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