Sunday, August 23, 2009

WHAT ARE THE RISK OF CYBER LOVE AND REALITY LOVE?

The cyber love is something that not so real unless you are very sure that is your choice and it need both choices is come from heart and believes it. Someone feel lonely and the sign in cyber chatting to view new friends or someone special in their life. But there’re also when somebody joins in to the chatting room, they enjoy and feel happy because they can share about anything what happen to them on that day. When they have a problem, sometime the chatting friends will give them a way how to overcome the problem.


Firstly, there are a lot of cheating statement. Based on research, many people join into chat room use a wrong statement about their status, and also about themselves. Before this, I know somebody from chatting room, his name is laxman udasi.He tell me that him from korea.i am very excited to know about people at Korea, about the weather and many thing. We are a good friend. One day, I feel want to check about their profile at yahoo mail suddenly, I am very shock because from their profile, his actually from Bangladeshi am very hot and ashamed. My friend laugh at me went they know about it.so, the moral value from this risk, is don’t easy to believe another person especially from other countries.

Secondly, the risk from cyber love is distracting one’s attention especially to our students. There are many web sites which are involved about self and relation such as facebook, yahoo messenger and many more. As we know every study place have their own waterless and it easy way to students join in chat room. From that, they cannot give full attention to our study especially when they do an assgement.students will lost their interest to study when they sign in cyber chat in addition when they involved in cyber love.

The next risk from cyber love is exposing to cyber crime. Actually we cannot really see what type of crime happen nowadays in cyber love. When I do my research, I found many criminal in cyber love, such as prostitution, kidnapping, rape and many thing else. When someone get to know somebody from chatty room and get involved any relation with they, of course this relation want get dating day. So from that by this dating day the dangerous be come and it will easy to move on cyber crime. Somebody use chatting room the way how they will get a sexes cyber and it really come true. They will add the girls in cyber chat and start messenger something trouble. When they know others girls interest to involve about it they want to meet out from cyber would. And it is very dangerously especially to our teenagers.

For my opinion about the risk in reality love is frame up. For me both of this love really easy to get frump up. The guys nowadays easy becoming a lier.they use their own skill to tackle any girls and get love with them .sometimes they use their wealth, their face to get the woman heart, when they get the woman heart; it is easy to get anything about their women. So, see it women is a very weakness. The easy give anything when they feel in love with someone and the guy’s thing they will cheat and do something to women like rape and kidnapping.

The last risk about the reality love is immorality and tests our piety. Limits of socialize is one of the priority in islam.so, reality love often be a matter to words immorality. When the first date maybe you will shy by each other, but after you get a second or more date, the shy will lose and you with your partner will do something different like to hold a hand and anything.
So, for me refer to our self to care about lifestyle...

In my conclusion, both of cyber love and reality love has their own risk. Cyber love is happened online, but reality love is happened in real world.
In cyber love, all you know from him/her is through online, and there're many bad lier in cyber world. Maybe, the percentage u will be cheated is higher.
Then, reality love usually is formed from friends. That feeling discovered when you know more from him/her, or you two having same interest, same tastes on something.

5 comments:

  1. salam to all of you
    as we know,both of it have their own risk.
    In a cyber love,the our risk is more than reality love,and i thing all of tou agree with my statement,right?
    After i do my research,most of them agree that cyber love not true,becouse there is a lot of cheating statement.there have many way to cheat in chatting room such as,they can cheat about them self,about their status, and about their position..

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  2. continue..........from a first comment
    Like a hooi theng said,"depend on your maturity of mind,how to differentiate which one is good or bad".but for me,you all must carefully when you want to believe about your friend in chatting room.
    in the reality love,the risk is more dangerous then cyber love.It will bring you to do a immorality and test your piety.when the first date maybe you will shy by each other,but after you get a second or more date,the shy will lose and you with your partner wiil do something different like to hold a hand and anything.
    so,for me refer to our self to care about lifestyle..

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  3. Actually,anything we do in our life,deal with a risk.Cyber love and reality love,also have their own risks.Cyber love,for example,is a situation when we meet everyone in cyber.The risk are,it will be easy for us to be cheated as we do not know the true colour of the person is.So,if we meet the person in real life,the percentage of us to get into dangerous situation is quite high.For reality love,also have its own risks.Sometimes,some person loves to lie about him/her status or identity.So,both cyber love and reality love have its own risks.Written by,sAripAh..

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  4. okay . first of all, i want to ask that , what is mean by risk ? every relationship will break up one day unless the couples do really love each other or they are willing to be together no matter how difficult. so , we cant just say that cyber love is risky , rite ? it's depends on how the couples's mind and how they manage their relastionship. Even in reality world, we success found a "real" partner as we all define as, many broke up cases still happen, some cases even more serious. For example, naked photos and sexual videos been taken by their partner then post it on youtube. So, we can not simply define that cyber love is more risky. of course, this is just one of my point. anyway,i m hooi theng.

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